I am sure this strip will rustle some jimmies so here is the long take.

Most players will create a benchmark of skill that coincidently include them. Can I do it? Then anyone who can't is a brainlet who should uninstall.

I could say doing it solo IS an option and if you can't, sounds like a "you" problem but this would sound rude, right? And yet, some people will be rude to anyone below their own skill level all the time.

Food for thought.